From Seb Paquet

Cynthia La Grou asked for some of my online facilitation wisdom, wondering "how to best create a sense of place and purpose in a stream of conversation". Here's what I came up with. As yet unrefined.

BEFORE GATHERING
- Clarify the intention that is pulling the project. Get as specific as possible.
- To maximize coherence, create a closed/secret group. An open group will decohere.
- Listen closely to people before inviting them, so you understand their intent and alignment. You don't need agreement but you need alignment.
- Invite people by telling them "I'm forming a group to achieve X. You might be in a position to play role Y." Make it exciting, for them and for you.

IN THE GROUP
- Make it an adventure. Make sure no one knows exactly how the experiment will turn out. Make yourself vulnerable but be determined.
- Exercise Host Leadership (http://hostleadership.ning.com/page/about)
- Express gratitude for contributions that move the ball forward. Be emotionally involved, and take the opportunity to build narrative in so doing.
- Do not reinforce contributions that do not move the ball forward.
- Form triads. When person A offers something, join them with person B who can engage meaningfully with it.
- Ask powerful questions to liberate energy and strategic questions to create motion. See http://www.thechangeagency.org/_dbase_upl/strat_questioning_man.pdf
- Have one-on-one conversations with key contributors. Take their pulse on how things are going. Be open to influence.